I wish would have known more about early learning when my son was younger. When he was tiny, I wanted to give him the best I could, and I played lots of classical music for him and read to him a lot from the time he was born, but that was all that I ever heard of of ways to stimulate him. When he was about six months old I started doing sign language with him and he learned many signs. When he was 1 1/2 I started teaching him some colors and alphabet letters but wasn’t very serious about it because I had been led to believe that he was too young so you had to go super slow in introducing those types of concepts.
When he was almost 2 1/2 I was looking into starting a home daycare as a way to earn money, and looked up all the books at our local library under the keyword “preschool”. How to Teach Your Baby to Be Physically Superb, How to Teach Your Baby Math, and How to Teach Your Baby to Read were some of the selections, although when I got them I thought they were just catchy titles.
To say the least they changed my life. When I first brought the books home I actually made fun of them because I thought it was stupid (“What? Babies can’t actually read!”) but out of pure curiosity I read them and have never looked back!
I had always wanted to teach Hunter but thought he was too young to learn. I eagerly looked forward to the day he would be “old enough” to start homeschooling, and was so excited when I found out that there’s no such thing as too young to learn. Exploring geography, history, art, math, and science with my son has been the greatest adventure and privilege of my life!
It’s funny because before reading these books, I was one of those people who was against early learning in general. I was homeschooled through high school so I was in that whole culture of homeschooling for a long time, and most homeschoolers are against early learning because of authors like Raymond Moore and David Elkind. Moore wrote books like “Better Late than Early” and Elkind wrote “The Hurried Child” and “Miseducation: Preschoolers at Risk” It’s really sad because, the greater context of these books is against sending tiny kids off to rigorous institutions at young ages, which is a totally separate issue than a parent lovingly teaching a child at home in an interest-based, gentle way.
It’s really sad that these myths abound, and I’m so thankful that I was shown the truth about little kids so that I didn’t lose my son’s first years. Hopefully that while more critics are presented the truth in a logical way, they will convert to the wisdom of early learning, as many have and many continue to do every day. Unfortunately, we can’t win them all and as Winston Churchill once stated, “Men stumble over the truth from time to time, but most pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing happened.”