I know in the Early Learning arena that we are not menat to test our child or really even push them into academics and let them come to it when they want to, but I had my daughter’s first parent teacher interview the other night and i found out that my daughter fantastic ability at saying no is working very well at school.
I have been trying to get a reading level established at school for my dd but she refuses to read to the teacher so her reading level can’t be established.S says she reads with Mummy at home. The teacher has been trying to encourage her over to some of the mathematical equipment and language equipment but S keeps saying no. While I am aware that she is in a Montessori environment and what she picks to play with is her choice I am also a little annoyed that I am paying $1350 per term (10 weeks of school) 4 terms a year and I can’t see any real learning and while S loves school I wish she was pushed more by the teacher to do more of those things. she is really interested in practical life and maybe that is where she needs to be right now but at the same time I feel like I am paying for a very expensive social event.
So I feel now that I have to step up even more to keep her on the early learning track except now when I try to do it with her I get I don’t want to Mummy, Mummy Im tired from school, Mummy I just want to play. (Same excuses she gives at school when trying to be introduced to anything new) I don’t want this to develop into a habit which she uses to get out of trying anything new or gives up when something she deems is to hard. How do I encourarge her without pushing her to the point where she hates learning???
I have been really praising the effort she puts in on anything new and using puppets to make it all fun and light! But is there anything else I can be doing?? Sorrhy if this seems like I am all over the place Im just trying to gather my thoughts???