Hi All,
We’ve had a little breakthrough here and I wanted to share it with you all.
Since birth Sabian has been constantly exposed to as many languages as I could possibly get my hands on. As a young baby we didn’t choose between languages. Our aim was to keep his ear open to all the sounds of all the languages. I’m sure we missed a few but we did our best to keep the pathways open.
From around six months we started to concentrate on three languages - German, Japanese, Chinese. We also kept up, with less focus, Spanish, French and Italian then on odd occasions any other language we could expose him to. We never spoke these languages and never really made an attempt to learn with him. We picked up words obviously particularly from the songs but that was about all. We were frightened of influencing his accents.
When he started being able to talk I started a very basic (and really quite slackly didn’t stick to it very well or very often) of each of the languages. The reason I didn’t persist with these much (besides having a million other things to do with him) was that he kept translating. I knew he could read the words - he got too excited about some of them to not be knowing what picture was going to follow or whatever and a few times I thought I heard him read things off the IAHP picture dictionaries. I knew he understood the languages because he was following instructions in them for his Little Leaps games. I just couldn’t get him to read them for me.
We recently realised that when we weren’t in the room he would read the word in its written language and when we were he was translating. I had thought the he knew “erdberren” meant “strawberry” but couldn’t say it.
I was wrong - he knew I didn’t understand German!!!
So we changed tacks and decided that despite our complete lack of talent for languages and our atrocious accents that we would start trying to learn alongside him.
That was a few weeks ago in that time we have done no more than learn a few words in each language and use them in front of him to each other.
All of a sudden my boy is running around talking in who knows what language or combination of which languages!!!
It’s amazing sentences in German with the correct syntax!!! The german is easiest for us to pick up on but we’ve noticed the Spanish and Chinese and Japanese as well.
Once things settle after xmas I am going to use the Doman “teach your baby to write” as a method of teaching the foreign languages to all three of us. I will let you know how it goes.
I hope this helps other people who have been worried about teaching languages you don’t know - it’s easier just to remember that your kid is smarter than you and no matter how badly you teach it something will manage to sink in!