This is an awesome thread idea!
I have one idea about stagnating, its like writers block and must be defeated!
One trick is to not shift focus but to change things up a bit.
If what you’re doing is being met with resistance, boredom, etc. Put EVERYTHING related to it away over night while the child isn’t around. Put the flashcards, workbooks, letter tiles, etc away. Everything except your NORMAL reading materials which are probably kept on a shelf or something. Delete the little reader and little math icons from your desktop. (but don’t uninstall the programs, duh!)
Keep it all hidden, out of sight and mind for 10-15 days. Don’t bring it up, or mention it to the child. If the child asks for it, put them off a little and play some other interesting game or engaging activity for them.
Then gradually begin to introduce the materials again.
For a young toddler, you could take them on a scavenger hunt where they will find the instructions labels on the walls/doors etc
For example:
Do You Want a New Toy?
Go in the bedroom
Give Daddy a Hug
Ask for a clue. Say please.
(Daddy would give them a new clue)
Look in the drawer
Surprise!
(a small but new toy would be found with the last clue.)
This Next Idea might be “Too Much” by many peoples reckoning, but its an idea…
For an older child. You could play a great game of pretend, that lasts for several (5-10) days. Tell them that a Bully has stolen all of your things and that there is a mystery challenge to get all their things back! Tell them that if they get XX number of points, they will earn something back. (Just to clarify, you would have put all the materials that they’d resisted away, this is what they’re trying to earn back).
They might need to work on reading 3-5 sights words to earn points, read a book with mom and then every time you come to one of their sight words, THEY must read it. That would earn them y/xx points, you could keep a schedule/calendar and each night put a ‘note’ for the Bully in the mailbox to tell them you did this or that.
Each day, have your child perform some small ‘challenge’ and send notes to the Bully and keep track of your points on the calendar etc. At the end, make sure you get some nice streamers and gift wrap and a few extra new things to put in the basket when you return the missing items to the child and have a “We Did It Party” that night.
This could be a neat way to re-introduce the reading. Begin reading together short stories and making up rhymes. Play games with the word cards and change them out on a schedule, no matter what else.
Play verbal phonics games.
Sing about the Alphabet. (Singing ABCDEFG…is pretty useless without any sort of context.) I taught my 4yo student his alphabet and sounds simultaneously by singing a song similar to the one on the letter factory.
The A says /a/ the A says /a/ Everybody, all together the A says…/a/! We would sign the alphebet and look at the giant flashcard for that letter as we sang. He learned them very well, and then the Letter Factory cemented the deal.
Play Simon says using verbs that the baby/child knows how to read.
You would say “Simon says…” then pick a verb card, clap, smile, wave, jump, speak, etc…
If the student is doing couplets or sentences, all the better. “Simon Says…” clap your hands, wave your hands, wave one hand, bounce around/etc.
I’m sure you could find a use for all 220 Dolch sight words in different games.
Do crafts together where you label things. (ie Make a rainbow poster and have your child tack the proper label onto each strip. Draw a picture of your house and pin the correct labels on different parts)
Develop a new activity like Music time or something, that lasts for 10 minutes, during which time you play with letter sounds
You might pick a subject and do lots of activities based on that subject that incorporate the ‘stagnating’ subject, without focusing on it.
For example, you might be learning about Anatomy and play lots of games and draw and label pictures about anatomy. You could work math into this by saying, “Look, my man has freckles. I’m going to give him…7 freckles on each cheek, so let me see 7+7 is…14!” Or, for reading, as you label each part of the body you could say the word and sound it out as you write. "Leg—/l/ /e/ /g/. Here is his neck…Neck /n/ /e/ /k/, then remark to yourself about how ck work together to make the same sound. Do it casually and keep going…
You could play (phonetic) alphabet charades.
Draw the ABC’s on 3x5 index cards in bold marker, put them all in a bag/basket and draw a l letter from them. Perform an action that begins with that letter. e.g. If you draw K, you might Kick, or Kiss. If you draw a W you could Wiggle or Wave, if you draw Y you could Yawn, if you draw and X you could stand up with your arms and legs apart so that you look like an X. etc…Your child will have to guess what it is, and then they take a turn.
As you progress, you could add in letter combos like; st (stomp), ch (chop or chase), dr (drag, or drumming) etc.
These are just some ideas to use to re-introduce and reinforce reading with your toddler. They may or may not work, I hope someone finds them usefule