I know there is at least one mother of an autistic child here. So it seemed semi-reasonable to ask here.
My cousin’s daughter, almost 3, has just been diagnosed with autism. She is completely non-verbal and has multiple sensory disorders. The little girl’s birthday is coming up and we’ve always bought all my cousin’s kids some clothes, a toy and a book for their birthdays and holidays. My mother mentioned a dvd program that was aimed specifically at autistic kids, but she can’t remember what it’s called and wasn’t sure if it was worthwhile anyway.
Anyone know what this program is and if it works?
She has just started therapy. At this point is only speech therapy, which seemed odd to me. Is that normal? What can we give her that will help her progress in conjunction with her therapy?
Any other resources?
Background for those concerned:
I’ve tried about 6 times to describe the situation, but there’s no way for me to say it without making my cousin sound like a bad mother. She is not, she is a victim of very unfortunate circumstances. She is not nearly as involved as the parents here. Her children are watched by someone even less involved during the day (because they cannot afford better care), and her husband is not a hands-on, play with the kids type of person either (and he works nearly 100 hours per week between 3 jobs). My family honestly thought her youngest hadn’t started talking yet because she was rarely spoken to. When we heard the diagnosis, we decided that we need to do something to help her (the daughter) no matter what the cost, but we still don’t want to be wasting our money. My cousin would not be able to afford anything that is not covered in the therapy. Before anyone asks, my cousin lives halfway across the country from me and has too much pride to accept financial help. Otherwise I would watch her kids for free, or pay for a better daycare, or something. We’ve already turned holidays that are typically not gift-giving holidays into excuses to send things for her kids. What kid doesn’t love a Canada Day gift?