Hi everyone
Sorry - I happened to go to Thailand the day this thread was started, so have only been able to reply now!
I have read the Native Reading book (and I wrote the articles in the BB reading section that quote from it). The main difference between Kailing and Doman/Titzer (YBCR) is that Kailing does not advocate explicitly teaching reading, whereas with Doman and Titzer, that is what you’re doing. However, what Kailing does share with Doman and Titzer is the belief that the most natural and effortless time for a child to learn to read the written language is at the same time as she is naturally and effortlessly learning the spoken language. For Doman and Titzer, you start teaching at a few months of age. Kailing means between ages one and three. He says that any child can learn to read by age three, and shares the examples of his son and daughter, who showed different facilities for reading. Kailing’s son was always interested in words and books, and learned to read by age two. Kailing’s daughter wasn’t that interested in words and used to toss her books aside, but suddenly one day she yelled at her father, “Daddy! Point!!” because he’d neglected to run his finger under the words of the book he was reading her. That made him realize how much she had been gaining from the practice of text pointing even when he thought she hadn’t been paying attention.
Text pointing is one of the most important techniques - and yes, it is the difference between pointing at one word in a manner of: “Look - that’s the word ‘television’” - because you want to draw your child’s attention to something difficult/interesting, versus running your finger under the words so that your child unconsciously begins seeing the correlations between the letters and the sounds they make. Actually this is quite similar to Titzer’s belief in a child’s ability to deduce the rules of phonics without being taught them (Titzer’s daughter Aleka did this before the age of 18 months). And similarly, Doman reminds us that children figure out the rules of grammar without being taught them - because children are linguistic geniuses. Kailing seems to share Doman’s belief that most children do not learn to read at the optimum time simply because we parents don’t give them enough exposure to the kind of text that they can understand. Doman says, “Mothers instinctually speak to their children in a loud, clear, repeated voice,” and just as the “loud, clear, repeated voice” facilitates learning of the spoken language, so “large, clear, repeated words” (not words as they appear in commercial books) facilitate learning of the written language.
Kailing doesn’t advocate the systematic teaching of reading - you don’t show certain words a certain number of times per day. But you make letters and words a part of everyday life - and crucially, play - from the earliest age. Besides text pointing, I would say that playing with letters and words is the most important technique in Kailing’s book. I’m sure a lot of Doman and Titzer parents do this kind of thing too; it’s just that we’re not explicitly told to do so by Doman or Titzer. Titzer is, however, seen playing games that teach reading in a video with his daughter Keelin: he has a pile of toy animals and shows Keelin a word, then asks her to find the appropriate animal. And of course, Elizabeth is doing this kind of thing all the time with Hunter. And not just with reading - the Math Lion is a great example of this.
Here are the 12 Native Reading techniques:
1. Play with individual letters, consistently, from an early age
- If you engage in letter play just about every day, even for just a few minutes, you will make the fundamental units of written language a recognizable and fun part of your child’s world; letters will be familiar at a deep neurological level.
- You can start by simply singing [your baby] the alphabet song while pointing to each letter of a brightly colored alphabet as you do it.
- Another good game is building towers with alphabet blocks, naming the letters your child sees as you build the tower up.
- If bath time becomes a favorite time for your child, those floating, sticking bath letters are a great way to do letter play.
- Play hide and seek with letters. Let your child choose letters to put onto a model train for rides around the track. Toss soft play letters for the family dog to retrieve. In all of these activities, be sure to name the letters for your child as you play.
- As soon as children are able to grab things, using 3D letters they can manipulate is the best.
2. Play with words, consistently, from an early age
- Go ahead and introduce whole words and read them to your child as soon as he or she is at all interested. A set of magnetic words that you put on your refrigerator is an easy way to do this; just make sure that they are big enough that your child can’t eat them! It’s even better if you can also find kitchen magnets that have pictures of the things named by the words magnets.
- As always, much of the word play should be interactive, because children use your interest and enthusiasm to learn what is interesting and important in their world. But soon your child will also enjoy playing with these magnets, or other manipulatable word toys, entirely on their own.
- [Children] may sometimes seem to spend word-play time mostly making a mess of things, scattering their literate toys about the kitchen floor. You will probably have the urge to “correct” this apparently random behavior - for example, to make your child turn the words right side up - but you should generally resist this urge. Remember that teaching children to read natively is fundamentally different from teaching them non-natively at a later age… When children learn to read natively they will do a written-word version of many of the same things they do when they learn to speak. They will “babble” with their toys, they will enjoy nonsense words, they will, to an adult eye, spend a lot of time goofing around. This is not only all right, this is actually essential.
[Note from Maddy: I have noticed that my DD Naimah always looks at her books upside down. Thanks to reading Kailing, I’m convinced that this an important developmental stage in her learning to read.]
3. Assemble words from letters, to make clear how words are made from letters
- In the course of your letter play with your child, now and again you should make a point to conspicuously assemble simple words from play letters and then read them aloud to your child.
- Your child will learn that written language, like spoken language, is not just something that you observe passively. You child will learn that language can be something you create, and that it is possible to come up with novel combinations of letters and words that you’ve never seen before.
- As always, making something of a production of this word assembly will make it much more fun and engaging for children. Name the letters and search around for each of them… As soon as children know their first few letters, you should deputize them to search for letters… When they return triumphantly with the requested letter, give them an enthusiastic “Thank you!”… A surefire hit is to surreptitiously sit on the last letter needed for the word, and get mock-frustrated at your inability to find it.
- In their first attempts [children] may apparently pick letters at random, they may place them upside down or sideways, or even in an unorganized pile, and then repeat the last word you demonstrated. A child might place “MGQZAF” down very seriously, point at it and then say with enthusiasm, even with authority, “Cat!” You should not jump to correct a child when this happens, because this is one of those very special “mistakes” which are actually important signs of a child’s progress and interest… The fact that a child has learned that letters can be assembled into a word, and that this group of symbols, jumbled or not, can correspond to a known spoken word - that is a truly momentous breakthrough. At this early point, the fact that a child might not know which word is really an unimportant detail.
- As their understanding becomes more sophisticated, children are likely to enjoy extending word-assembly play to the creation of nonsense words - that is, intentionally creating words which they know to be nonsense… Both of my children went through a stage where they loved to assemble random sequences of letters and try to make me pronounce them… By persevering in making my best attempt to accurately pronounce these random words, I helped my children learn two very profound things…
- When they added a letter or two to the end of their written “word,” which only changed the end of it, it was only the end of what I pronounced that changed, too…
- The length of the written word correlates (sometimes quite hilariously) with the length of the word when it is spoken…
Of course, they also got a great deal of practice in observing which sound each letter added to the spoken word, although I never belabored the point with particular phonic emphasis which would have held up the pace of the fun.
4. Read books to your child nearly every day
- It may seem strange but - even for the express purpose of fostering reading - some of the books that you read to your child can be, and should be, books with only pictures! If your child’s favorite book is a picture book, do not by any means discourage that interest, and do not try to force text-filled books on your child… Even if your child’s first favorites are picture books, the important point is that he or she is still learning to enjoy books generally.
5. Point to the words, nearly all the time, when you read to your child
[jtg has already supplied the relevant details - thanks jtg!]
6. Point, consistently, from the word for a thing to a picture of a thing, while saying that same word
- By consistently pointing from a picture to its corresponding word and saying the word both times, you are creating an environment for your child where the idea comes naturally that the abstract written word is a label both for the spoken word and for the more concrete visual depiction. Of course, you should also apply this same technique to the actual things themselves, not only to pictures of things.
7. Label things from an early age
- Labeling is another way of doing what the pointing of Technique 6 does: explicitly associating a written word with its object, and with the corresponding spoken word.
- If your child’s first word is “Mama,” go ahead and stick a Post-It note that says “MAMA” on the appropriate forehead.
- When your child is playing with bath letters in the tub, go ahead and spell “BATH” right there, while they are in the midst of it. Another easy way to incorporate labels is to make a game of putting nametags on all their favorite stuffed animals, perhaps on the formal occasion of a stuffed animal tea party.
8. Show your child his or her own name in letters
- Children have a natural interest in their own name, so when playing with words (Technique 2), assembling words (Technique 3), and using labels (Technique 7), be sure to include your child’s own name in the play.
- Children are likely to be fascinated with the names of their family members and close friends, too. So… you should also introduce your child to [these] words… Because your child is so familiar and fluent with the spoken form of these words, these are likely to be the first words for which your child really “gets” the correlation with the written form of the word.
9. Introduce uppercase and lowercase letters
- The earlier [children] become familiar with quirks of written language like capitalization the more natural they will seem. At the same time, there is no need to go out of your way to introduce cases; rather, just allow the introduction to come naturally.
10. Play rhyming games, with both spoken and written words
- When children play around with rhymes, they are intuitively acting very much like rigorous scientists of language… By holding the end of the word constant and varying only the beginning, children can isolate and focus their attention on just the part of the word that changes.
- Rhyming books are, like rhyming play in general, a favorite of children for the same good reasons… Rhyming books also serve as a wonderful way to get creative word play started… For example, you might start a story with the title character of Dr Seuss’s The Cat in the Hat, but then tell your own new story where the Cat meets a Rat with a Bat who ate the Cat’s Hat and, as a result, became rather Fat… and so on… Along the way you should encourage your children to come up with a rhyming word of their own and then see in what ridiculous directions it takes the story.
- The effectiveness of this play is greatly enhanced… if you use your child’s play letters to assemble the rhyming words in written form.
- Alliteration… is also a very effective basis for this sort of word play.
- There are some potential confusions that may arise in the course of rhyming and alliterative games. For example, not only do “huff” and “puff” rhyme, but so does “rough.” And “not,” “knight,” and “gnome” all start with the same sound… In general I believe you should not avoid these complications… As with capitalization, I believe that a fairly “neutral” approach is the best course of action: don’t exaggerate complexity, but don’t oversimplify either. If children encounter the exceptions and complications of language in a natural manner, at the same rate they will actually encounter them throughout their life, they will learn these complexities most instinctively. These exceptions, just like the many common irregular verbs in speech, will become deeply familiar to them.
11. Use music and song to aid early reading
- The simple fact that nearly all children love to sing is the main advantage of incorporating music into your play whenever you can. It’s also important because music clearly helps structure memory. Many children who have difficulty memorizing phrases, or even short poems, nevertheless can recall many classic children’s songs in their entirety, once they get going. Music has a momentum that is similar to the momentum children must learn to generate themselves in order to read complex sentences with fluency and comprehension.
- [Besides singing the ABC song during letter play,] you can play a similar game with Old McDonald had a Farm by pointing at pictures of each animal as you sing it with your child the first time through, then, during the encore performance, you can point at the written words for each animal as you sing each name out.
- If your child has a recording of favorite children’s songs, print out the lyrics so that you and your child can sit in a comfortable chair and read along, with text pointing, while you listen to the music.
12. If at all possible, breastfeed your child
I am not saying that a formula-fed baby cannot become a native reader; what I am saying is that it is biologically and medically clear that the best environment to promote native reading, as with all other cognitive development, includes being breastfed.
That’s it! If you have any questions about the Native Reading techniques, feel free to ask me!
Maddy