Dear everyone,
I have a pair of twins, one boy and one girl, 25months old now.
My daughter is a keen learner, anything I expose her to she takes interest in and takes part in it. She’s picked up sign language and new vocabularies through Singing Time, going to Shichida classes and Tweedlewink classes lately. I do manual flashcards with them whenever I have the time plus LR every night before going to bed.
My son on the other hand, though given the same opportunities, takes no interest in most of them but just wants to play with his car and spinning and twisting anything that is round.
Each time we attended Shichida or Tweedlewink class, he’ll run around disturbing other kids. If I ever tried to pull him back or stopped him from venturing around, he’ll cry and make a fuss and we almost always had to get out of the class so he could calm down and not distract other classmates further.
The reason I enrolled him into Tweedlewink and pulled him out of Shichida was to see if the gentler approach suits him better so he could benefit from the classes. Unfortunately that is not the case.
At home when I played DVDs such as Tweedlewink program, he’d lie down and looks at the screen blankly or requests repeatedly for his toy car. He would repeatedly spins the car’s wheels and watches intently as the wheels spin.
One other thing to note is he seems extremely curious when we travel in our car. Often he’d struggle in his car seat so he could look back and turn to the front over and over throughout the entire journey to see the front and back view. My husband thinks he’s trying to memorise the routes we take and I used to think that he likes the outdoor and is simply curious about what’s happening out of home.
I recently read somewhere on the internet about how kids become computer or TV addicts. Apparently due to imbalance of the vesticular system, a child could be addicted to such things.
Does anyone have any experience that you could share? I’m kinda lost now, dont know what else to do. I’m a working mother with little free time except for an hour or two before bedtime with them every day and the weekends. I have little help at home in terms of teaching the kids and many a times I had had to ignore my son to concentrate on my daughter while teaching them. Whenever my son makes a fuss during “learning time” I’d put him in his cot so he could observe my daughter and hopefully she would set an example to him and he follows suit soon. I feel very guilty and yet helpless.
Help, anyone please?