Kids reaction at something you did

have you been in a situation where your kid resents something you did or you upset him without even realizing it? Today my husband was watching Soccer World Cup on TV while my grandson was seeing Backyardigans Pirate on DVD. Suddenly my husband heard the DVD volume too HIGH so he lower it. My grandson told him that he could not hear and left the room. When the game ended my husband tried to watch the movie with him but he did not want to be with him and his reaction was to say : ‘I will not play with you’.
I think we have to work on this because he has to realized others’ rights or do you think he is too young for that?