First, on the question of whether this is the “best curriculum.” Ever the contrarian, I’ve gotta say–I don’t think it is known whether there is a best homeschooling method for everyone. Partly that depends on how “method” is defined, but partly it depends on research that might be difficult (or even impossible) to perform. Certainly it is a very common view that because students differ greatly in how they learn, the methods that work appropriately for them will vary. But then, as I said, that depends on what counts as “method” and how we distinguish one method from another. I don’t know, for example, whether we are following the “Well-Trained Mind” classical homeschooling method. Definitely we aren’t following it exactly, but we happen to be doing many of the things the book recommends.
Here’s what people mean when they say there is no one best curriculum, they simply mean that not all homeschoolers choose the same curricula. Some swear by Saxon math, some by Singapore. Basically, you have to think in-depth about your goals in teaching a particular subject, learn about the main options, and try to figure out in advance which approach appeals most to you. Then be prepared to change your mind…
But these easy observations hardly mean that there is no one best method. It might be the case that there is one best method of teaching, if the method is broadly-enough delineated, and we stipulate that the teacher of the method is adequate. Sometimes a method is poor simply because the practitioner is incapable of using it, or unwilling.
My opinion of the book is that it’s the single best book written about homeschooling, but unfortunately, that isn’t saying that much, because most books about homeschooling are really lame. If what you’re looking for is a list of topics to study, you might want to look up the common core standards: http://www.corestandards.org/ just as a reference point. Another good book for simply listing topics or benchmarks, which reads something like a “homeschooler’s curriculum standards,” is Rebecca Rupp, Home Learning Year by Year. (This would be a very rigorous curriculum.) Another handy topic guide would be The Educated Child by William J. Bennett (and others). A good grade-by-grade list of books is Books to Build On.
What The Well-Trained Mind does better than any other book I’ve seen is to describe, in depth, a whole system of education, together with specific book recommendations (and often alternatives). The other books I’ve listed here are more like catalogs; WTM is more of a system, the distillation of much reflection and experience by some very intelligent women. I don’t agree with absolutely everything they say, and wouldn’t take all their advice, but then, who would? Since it’s such a huge system, not many will fall in line at every point. If you’re homeschooling, it’s probably because you want to do things your own way. Besides, it’s a pretty ambitious program, and many homeschoolers of a low-key stripe (lower-key than us :biggrin: ) wouldn’t dream of using the whole thing.