Currently, my son and I aren’t doing much of either. He didn’t seem to be learning much from the screen. He did learn lots of vocabulary, which is of course great, but I am not sure what else. He doesn’t like flash cards so that is not an option for us either. Instead I have been paying close attention to how he likes to play and have been trying to build the cards into his play.
Here are some games we play. He learns from them because every time he looks at or handles a card I read it to him:
-Cards with a string loop attached to the top. He hangs them on a hook.
-Large poster of Elmo (love Elmo) taped to a box with his mouth cut out. He feeds Elmo with cards taped to toilet paper rolls.
-An empty floss container filled with laminated letters. He likes to put them in and take them out.
-He also puts the letter cards through a slot in a piggy bank.
-Cards taped to empty soda bottles. He knocks them over with a ball like bowling. It is supposed to be like bowling anyway. He refuses to let go of the ball so its more like punching. lol
-Boxes with holes cut out and and some cards slightly covering the holes. He puts balls through the paper into the holes.
-I have a word taped to his basketball hoop. (I need to change it.)
-Cards taped to the mirror in the bathroom. We drive his toy cars from card to card.
-ping pong balls with letters written on them. He uses a little net to fish them out of the water in the bath. Of course sometimes the letters may be facing different directions. I sometimes show him “This is u,” flip it over, “now it is n”. He gets it because he imitates me.
-cards taped to hangers. He likes to help hang the hangers in the closet.
All of this is a lot of work of course. But it is fun for him and he is learning from it. So for me it is worth it. I am not sure why he didn’t seem to learn from the screen. I tend to think on a tablet it would be more interactive and he would learn better…or even if he could use the mouse. I am sure there are a hundred more ways to play. What you do depends on the age of the child. I try to get ideas by watching my son and seeing what he is already doing.