Developing vocabulary for a four year old

I’m looking for some ways to develop and build stronger vocabulary (activities, good books etc) for my 4 year old. I know her level of English is not as great as it should be as I guess my English vocabulary has slowly been diminishing since I moved to France 5 years ago. I have to pause every time I need to speak in English as I always have words at the tip of my tongue and have to actually TRY to string a sentence together (which others INSIST I’m fibbing!).

English is my first language but I’m tired of stressing about how poor my language skills have become (don’t know why!), as I don’t use my language often, besides at home with my daughter who attends full days of kindy, so it’s not 24/7. I’ve noticed her language skills is seriously below that of her fellow English speaking peers as their parent’s have much stronger vocabularies they put to good use every day (being English language teachers, they use is all the time).

It’s incredibly difficult to find English language books where I live in France so I basically have to read to her off we give books web site. What are other ways you could suggest I do to enhance her vocabulary? Any book recommendations? She absolutely LOVES being read to and pretending to read and sits up all night looking at her books and wanting as many stories as possible read to her, which is helping, along with nursery rhymes.

I always thought she must have speech delay but I think it’s because I don’t use a broad range of vocabulary with her. She’s very smart otherwise. Teacher doesn’t see a problem with her in either language.

What can I do besides from read and sing?

Invest in a good picture dictionary an random read through it every day.

Here’s how I do it with my little boy of 2.5 (English is our second language too.) We’ve got a picture dictionary with over 3000 images and about twice as many words. We start on any page in the book and either work forwards from there or backwards. I’ll begin by asking, what do you see?, which one do like? or what definition should I read? If he doesn’t pick an image or word on that spread, I’ll say something like, how about this one, then I’ll read the full definition (it includes things like noun or verb, plural form etc.) If he’s still interested after reading the definition, we continue talking about that one image, but he often moves to another image or asks me to page. My boy also tends to talk a lot about the pictures and the words and even though it’s a random mess, he learns so much from it and since it’s a dictionary, I can look up things when I get stuck on his questions (looking words up is also something he enjoys, and comparing similar words or similar objects is another)

I’m sure your 4 year old is way ahead of my 2 year old, so you’re probably looking for an activity that’s more stimulating, but I thought I’ll share this idea because it works very well for us.

Sorry, this reply is just going to be all over the place!!! Its really, really late now and I’m tired but can’t sleep!!! You have been warned.

If English is your first language, then you have an advantage as much of English isn’t new to you–its just…on vacation?

I would start trying to read/write a little in English several times everyday on the high-school level. Read short stories online, do word of the day, get a thesaurus–synonyms are your friend!!!

Look at 1-3 interesting pictures online with your DD each day and look at the pictures together. Describe them and talk about them. Look at animal pictures, pictures of outer space, pictures of cities, beaches, family, your old home with your family, other children etc…

Try to find some activity you can reliably do in English several times a week.
If she doesn’t own a doll-house and a tea-set yet, this is the perfect age to introduce them as you can have English tea-parties and the dolls + their house is an excellent model of a typical home and gives you an opportunity. If you watch something on TV or DVD, like a movie. Talk about what happened 1st, 2nd, 3rd…last. Favorite parts, funny parts. Get some books in English.

I would take a look at Readingbear.com, progressivephonics.com and starfall.com. Reading bear will probably do the most for her vocabulary in the early stages sense they use simple words in sentences.

Play physical response games…things like Simon Says, Mother May I, and others so that she gets used to following direct commands in English. Get a couple of toys and put them in a basket. Let this be the “English Basket” when you play with a toy from this basket, you speak English!!!

Do you know any hand clapping games? Things like Tic Tac Toe, Patty-Cake, Rock-Paper-Scissors?
Now would be a fun time to introduce them as they are fun and novel ways to work on gross motor, rythym, cordination, language, ryhming and have fun at the same time.
Get one of those “First 1000 Words” book and keep it near at hand. Take 3 words a day and learn them, then play “I Spy” with your daughter.

I suggest looking into an E-Reader if getting phyiscal books is prohibitive, but first know that there are literally 1000’s of books available online for free.
Is your daughter ready to read?
Look into The Reading Lesson, its available as a PDF and can be downloaded to a computer or printed. The first 40 pages of the book are free (2 chapters) it is very gentle but pretty thorough. The same company sells a vocabulary program, though it might be more appropriate after you finish the first ~10 lessons of the Reading Lesson.

Even if you read books in French then talk about them in English.
Study the pictures in English.
Describe pictures as colorful and vibrant, realistic or caricature, you might ask “does this animal look nice and tame or does he look wild and fierce?” to help your daughter learn the words tame vs wild.
Play the opposite game with dolls and stuffed animals.
“My doll is going over the pillow so your doll is going to go under the pillow”
“This dog is wild and loud!!! His brother is tame and quiet!! :)”

That type of thing.
As you re-read books you’ve discussed you can advance the vocabulary you are using with your child. If last week, you talked about the “big dog behind the little dog”, you might talk about how the “bigger dog walks behind the small dog.” or how the lion which was described as “scary” last time might be “frightening” or “ferocious” when you read the book later.

Can you print off stories in black and white for her and make her some english books that way?
Maybe writing letters to her Anglophone family back home–you write and she dictate, will help fuel her interest in words and reading.
There are many educational videos on youtube, I would let her watch a couple of them ranging from PreK-3rd grade level and look up words for 1st, 2nd and 3rd grade vocabulary words, try and use 3 new words a week.

Make a word wall.
Perhaps you can use sticky notes to translate some of her french books into bilingual books. Get a 3x5 sticky note and write the English translation of each page, put the sticky notes in the French books so that you can read the same stories in English and French.
Make a list of words that you can use to describe various pictures in different books and put it on the back flap of the book and just subtly cross out the words that you have covered a few times, so you can gradually see a rough idea of any progress you make. Its a huge encouragement.

Does your DD like to make videos? Perhaps a private Youtube channel where she makes videos for her English speaking family by talking about her school, playing with puppets, singing a song etc…will also help her to feel more motivated to speak English??

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Thanks for your replies.

What are some picture dictionaries you would recommend? I’m sure there’s plenty of words she hasn’t been introduced to yet that she should’ve already knew by now.

My English has been on vacation for a very long time, in fact, its become so bad I’m too embarrassed to admit it’s my native language!

mom2bee, they’re such great ideas, thank you so much!!!

I’m not sure if she is ready to read, she knows all of her letter and their sounds and can recognise some simple words. We have been using starfall a lot lately and I’ve noticed she is literally obsessed with books and wanting to be read to, do you think she seems ready?

I can’t find the one I have online, “Children’s Dictionary” NorthParadePublishing, but my advice would be to try and choose one that goes beyond the basics (not first 1000 words) but one that still has multiple images per page.

Here’s one such book that I personally feel is a good resource (and close to the one I’ve got)
http://www.amazon.com/Childrens-Illustrated-Dictionary-DK-Publishing/dp/0756651964/ref=sr_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1377031431&sr=1-5&keywords=children’s+dictionary

And my answer to if your little one is ready to learn how to read is - YES YES YES YES, I believe that a child can’t be too young, nor can any person be too old to learn anything. Just keep it light, fun and take your child’s lead.

Thank you for the link, it seems like a really good book. I also like the dictionary games they have included.

When it comes to books, I just read books in English from we give books and bedtime stories collection which I read to her in different languages as well as the versions in English.

Her vocabulary might seem very well behind compared to peers and because she also flaps her hands, realising now from excitement, I suspected maybe she has a speech delay or autism. I thought it could also be because she is hearing many different languages at home and all her peers are either monolingual or learning to be bilingual since she attends an international bilingual school, they have less confusion.

I took her to the doctor to see if they suspected autism but they said she is too smart to be autistic. I know in France they see things differently to America, or Australia, England etc when it comes to autism and I read that smart children can also have autism/learning disabilities.

This is what she knows already in English and French and in brackets, “mastered at age…”

Entire alphabet, in order or random order, upper and lower case (18 mo.s) and all their sounds (mastered 22 m)
1-10 (18 mos)
1-30 (24 mo)
First and last name (18 mo)
All her colours and shapes (18 m)
Speaks in full sentences, proper correct grammar and is understood 98-100% by familiar people and strangers from around 3 yrs of age
Crawling (6 mo)
Walking (14 mo)
She understands the hour hand on a clock, got it correct at first introduction (4 years)
Obsessed with books and learning (3 years, especially nowadays)
Can count various quantities to 15 (just under 4 years)
Fast learner since forever

So the doctors have ruled out any disability or delay because of her above knowledge.

When she talks she could say ''firstly we need to eat the spaghetti, then we need to eat dessert" using as an example, while her friend the same age could say while acting out a scene ''I’m putting you in prison and I’m locking you in with the key". Thisthen made me assume the problem there laid with me, I wasn’t talking to her enough or using advanced vocabulary because my daughter wouldn’t know what a prison is or be able to say the exact sentence herself to me or a friend, if that makes sense. I’m just struggling with my own English right now let alone knowing how to teach her without stumbling for words.

I’ll look into finding the above book and other picture dictionaries and I will also keep my own language skills up-to-date to keep my brain fresh. I will focus more on teaching her how to read, I hope starfall can help there. I really appreciate your replies, such great ideas for me to use.

She sounds like a very bright and wonderful little one! :slight_smile:

When teaching reading don’t forget about readingbear. Learning to read also boosts a child’s overall language development.

As I understand it, children learning multiple languages can be speech delayed, but they do catch up and then end up with all sorts of advantages for being multilingual.

Soon enough she’ll be smarter than me lol

I checked out reading bear and she seems really interested. Do you think both of those sites will be enough to teach her how to read? I’ve also looked into Teach a child to read in 100 easy lessons. I’ll also browse the threads on brillkids.

She has certainly caught up dramatically in the past year, she was really bad before but back then I had even less exposure to English and French in an isolated Country town.

We are watching PLayschool everyday (in Australia), which is a wonderful kids program full of singing, dancing, craft, story time…
The people in it are actors and use only very descriptive language. My 3.5 year old talks like them: “Mummy look at the colourful flowers. Don’t they small wonderful?”
I often have to laugh, as no one in our family talks like that and well I only speak German to her.
MAybe you can check it out online, youtube or buy DVDs. It’s the best kids program I have ever seen.

Thanks for the suggestion. We already have a fair few playschool DVDs that I bought when we went to Australia for a holiday. She really loves playschool and we virtually watch it every day. She is also a big fan of the wiggles.

Yeah playschool is really good, you can also buy their album off iTunes and listen to their children songs, the songs are actually quite enjoyable compared to other children’s music I’ve heard.

Ahh. Playschool is amazing. I grew up on that show. It surpasses so many American shows. Sadly we only have one DVD. I really need to get my mum to get me more. It helps for him to learn his assume vacab as he speaks predominately American.